Thank you ladies!!!! Yes I am a bit ambivalent on using the necklace for the wedding [but I will still keep it jaja]. Once everything arrives in the mail, I will DEF share it with you all. I really appreciate your comments/criticisms [and i do not see it as a bad thing at all!], many girls my age [just turned 31] want too much swarovski bling and i want something wow but classic at the same time. I wont be able to attend Ruckus this year as my wedding will be in the Caribbean on July 10th and then visiting Scandinavia, but I am hoping to attend my first Ruckus next year [as I live north of San Diego] and yes, You girls will be able to try on the pearls =).